tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-616982860776135414.post3138615138426966566..comments2023-10-18T09:35:55.767+02:00Comments on LUDWIG'S ROHRSTOCK-PALAST: Kaelah's Corner (Jan 2012): The Meaning of F/F PlayLudwighttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14975294529532823252noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-616982860776135414.post-40911308272228993532012-02-10T12:27:42.153+01:002012-02-10T12:27:42.153+01:00@ Rich Person:
Thanks a lot for sharing your thoug...@ Rich Person:<br />Thanks a lot for sharing your thoughts and experiences! It makes a lot of sense to me that as a heterosexual man you aren't interested in M/M play with a direct sexual tension between you and the other man. I guess that is quite similar to my view as a heterosexual woman on F/F play. But I think it is cool that you would be open to try M/M play if a woman you care about fancied it.Kaelahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17108718924415630397noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-616982860776135414.post-61828968229706717332012-02-01T07:08:25.626+01:002012-02-01T07:08:25.626+01:00I've had spanking experiences with several peo...I've had spanking experiences with several people, all women. I don't seek out spanking experiences with men. I would be open to it, but my sexual interest would not be with him. If there were a woman that wanted me to play with a man for her benefit or that had a male partner and wanted him to be a part of the scene, then that would be okay.<br /><br />I don't generally have an interest in spanking that doesn't have some erotic component. That component may be more relationship-oriented than sexual, but it is still related to the sexuality of the spanking. Watching and participating in spanking is arousing for me.<br /><br />Not all the women I've had spanking experiences with have been directly part of an ongoing sexual relationship I had with them. However, there was a sexual attraction to it, even if I was not prepared to have sexual intercourse or even more limited sexual engagement with her. There was some element of sexual energy involved in these scenes, even when there was no physical sexual contact. The woman knew that I was thinking about her as a sexual partner, just one where the activity was spanking-related.<br /><br />A number of the encounters I've had have been within my close intimate relationships with women. These have sometimes been for disciplinary purposes, rather than erotic encounters. The discipline within the relationship has helped to build intimacy which is different from sexuality but still very physical, emotional, mental, and even spiritual. These were expressions of caring and desire for closeness.<br /><br />My relationships have not generally been monogamous. I was in a married, monogamous relationship for a while, but I didn't find it suitable. I'm broadly attracted to women and I don't want to limit my actions with them except in terms of what the individual woman wants with me. So, it has not been a barrier in my thinking to have spanking activities with more than one woman at a time.<br /><br />I think it would be interesting to have experiences with men. This would need for me to be in terms of a scenario that a woman I care about wanted. In that case, she could put me in play with another man for her entertainment. I guess that might sound boringly heterosexual, but I'm boringly heterosexual. Nevertheless, I'm an open-minded boringly heterosexual man.Rich Personhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01029518662880068066noreply@blogger.com