tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-616982860776135414.post2211038984265318512..comments2023-10-18T09:35:55.767+02:00Comments on LUDWIG'S ROHRSTOCK-PALAST: Kaelah's Corner (Feb 2019): Midlife Crisis or Midlife SerenityLudwighttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14975294529532823252noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-616982860776135414.post-53795172716995414762019-06-30T22:12:23.387+02:002019-06-30T22:12:23.387+02:00I'm sorry that it took me so long to reply to ...I'm sorry that it took me so long to reply to the two of you!<br /><br />@ Gustofur:<br />Thank you so much for your kind comment and for sharing your own experiences!<br /><br />@ Anonymous:<br />That's a very good point, which is not only true for kink but for other things at well! Before we had children, Ludwig and I also took quite some time just for us as a couple and we traveled a lot. Many people say that they will do a lot of traveling after having retired from their jobs and after the children having left home, and when the time comes, they are too old or too ill to do it. That's why Ludwig and I decided not to make that mistake and do certain things which are important to us before having children. So today we don't have the feeling of having missed out on something important and it is okay for us that we don't have much time as a couple nowadays and that we can't go to kinky events or travel as far as we used to, either.Kaelahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17108718924415630397noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-616982860776135414.post-70902368613039496532019-03-07T15:49:26.992+01:002019-03-07T15:49:26.992+01:00Kaelah
Another factor which may be of comfort is ...Kaelah<br /><br />Another factor which may be of comfort is that you have already indulged your kinky desires and when you bring them to mind in the years to come they will be real memories of real things you actually did, rather than fantasies of things that you always wanted to do. <br /><br />In that situation, I don't think it matters quite as much if they never occur again. You've done them, enjoyed them, and have the memories to sustain you. That's hugely better than being tantalised by events or activities (or places or people, for that matter) that you always meant to enjoy but never quite got round to.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-616982860776135414.post-51127924052457844732019-03-03T17:38:32.163+01:002019-03-03T17:38:32.163+01:00Kaelah, l passed through the same transition 18 ye...Kaelah, l passed through the same transition 18 years ago that you so elequently described in your blog. I was at a later stage in my life. My children were grown and I had grandchildren. I retired from my job and eventually moved into a continuous care community with my wife, where all our needs needs are provided for us for the remainder of our lives. I am still close to my kids and grandkids. I am happy and content. <br />My kink must now be satisfied through literature,video and blogs, which is okay by me especially since there are intelligent blogs like yours. The rough part of being at this age is losing close friends to the “grim reaper”. There are however new friends to be made.<br />So, Kaelah, enjoy all the phases of life and keep sharing your experiences.Gustofurnoreply@blogger.com