tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-616982860776135414.post7959609071045340369..comments2023-10-18T09:35:55.767+02:00Comments on LUDWIG'S ROHRSTOCK-PALAST: Kaelah's Corner (Mai 2018): New HorizonsLudwighttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14975294529532823252noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-616982860776135414.post-7663243291952275992018-06-29T18:18:24.615+02:002018-06-29T18:18:24.615+02:00I wish I could comment. Have you not been approvin...I wish I could comment. Have you not been approving comments?Gustofurnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-616982860776135414.post-25816884321171078802018-06-28T04:40:36.071+02:002018-06-28T04:40:36.071+02:00"Have you ever gained a lot by ever doing it?..."Have you ever gained a lot by ever doing it?"<br /><br />Yes, Yes, and Yes. However, and you knew it that there had to be a "however," the chemistry with the top is the key to a safe and sane conclusion to the scene. Some would argue with the word "chemistry," yet I would defend it: pushing you beyond what you felt that you could accept, yet trusting not to be hurt irreparably, emotionally and physically.<br /><br />In all these years of seeking and giving consensual impact play, very rarely it happened that either as top or bottom, we were both at the moment of "we are over the top, and this is enough." Call it lucky, or savvy, but the moment comes when as a bottom you feel that you have spent all that you can to resist and fight, and then the instant comes when you don't care anymore, and all that remains is acceptance and if really lucky, blissful peace. The top, when in tune, feels it too, and then gently brings you down - it is all about the bottom's subservience and wellness.<br /><br /> Valnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-616982860776135414.post-58030029217233617262018-06-21T17:32:26.212+02:002018-06-21T17:32:26.212+02:00I can’t believe there are no comments!I can’t believe there are no comments!Gustofurnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-616982860776135414.post-87933575644900111642018-06-13T21:15:53.223+02:002018-06-13T21:15:53.223+02:00Kaelah I tried posting a comment a couple of weeks...Kaelah I tried posting a comment a couple of weeks ago and it never showed up. Same on your last post - also never showed up. Is there an error on your site? Seems like maybe no comments are getting posted. Please let me know Stephen.sir99@gmail.comAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-616982860776135414.post-61076564510363393342018-06-12T13:08:48.655+02:002018-06-12T13:08:48.655+02:00Dear Kaelah,
For seven years, my ex girl-friend an...Dear Kaelah,<br />For seven years, my ex girl-friend and I had a relation-ship, which you call a dark world. But I thing, that we were just a normal couple, who liked to give and receive very severe spanking. In our scenes beatings were the most important part but we mixed them with a soft S/M (hot wax, clothes clumps etc.), old-school punishments, and gymnastics exercises. We changed the roles the second time. I believe that it is necessary to have an agreement with rules to be in this kind of relation.<br /><br />Our main rules were:<br />The top is in absolute control of the bottom.<br />The top decides when a scene ends.<br />No safe word.<br />No sex during a scene (an anal plug was allowed).<br />No humiliation. <br />The bottom must not be tied up.<br />The bottom must be naked and barefooted.<br />A beating must be given in 12 strokes series (additional 3 for too slow counting, 6 for miscounting and 9 for not keeping a position).<br />Every stroke must be counted (sometimes in reverse order) and thanked.<br />The bottom must take a scene stoic (as long as possible).<br /><br />Since we both had a high threshold of pain, our bodies were covered with a lot of black, blue or green marks and bruises. Skin on my buttocks must be thin, because I bleed almost every time she did it only some times.<br />We do not have this kind relation-ship any longer but we are still friends. She moved and has a big house long away of curious neighbors and I visit her some times.<br />My everyday is full of anxieties and fears but during our spanking plays I felt very secure; strange but true.<br /><br />Sorry for the long post.<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-616982860776135414.post-88467558553664517742018-06-03T12:49:18.138+02:002018-06-03T12:49:18.138+02:00Wow. Thank you for such a candid intro to this ser...Wow. Thank you for such a candid intro to this series of posts Kaelah.<br /><br />It is really interesting to hear what you say.<br /><br />I completely agree with you that playing in a scene which is explicitly defined as not having a safeword does take the dynamic to another level.<br /><br />It involves a level of complete trust and surrender which makes it much more intimate, more real and allows both sides to play their roles more fully.<br /><br />If you play with a safeword there is always the possibility that consent may be withdrawn at any time. It adds a conditionality and a legalistic element - as you said - to the experience which makes it "safer" but also less real and satisfying.<br /><br />Setting up a specific scene where no safeword exists allows for the possibility of complete immersion. The top has full responsibility - and has to use that gift wisely. The bottom only needs to feel.<br /><br />Looking forward to reading the sequel.stephen.sir99https://www.blogger.com/profile/03892331382686351112noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-616982860776135414.post-28303149274062497502018-06-01T20:03:46.985+02:002018-06-01T20:03:46.985+02:00I really enjoy reading your blogs because of your ...I really enjoy reading your blogs because of your excellent English prose and the variety of topics and sub-topics. I particularly like your pictures and videos. But (you knew there was a butt coming), your kink is far more severe than mine. Which makes it difficult for me to respond to all of your posts. Please keep posting, I will keep reading.Gustofurnoreply@blogger.com