tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-616982860776135414.post5633564975354451693..comments2023-10-18T09:35:55.767+02:00Comments on LUDWIG'S ROHRSTOCK-PALAST: Happiness in SlaveryLudwighttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14975294529532823252noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-616982860776135414.post-45894211353470946052010-08-06T14:24:17.748+02:002010-08-06T14:24:17.748+02:00@ Eliane:
I cross my fingers that your next hard ...@ Eliane:<br /><br />I cross my fingers that your next hard scene will be good, no matter when you'll decide to do it. I was actually very scared when the scene started and Ludwig tied me down, but I think the key to deal with it is trusting the top one is playing with to find the right balance. And since you know some very experienced and trustworthy tops I have no doubt that you'll find the right one for the scene when the time comes! :-)<br /><br /><br />@ Pandora:<br /><br />I don't think that the pain threshold really decreases, I guess it's only the increased anxiety that might make a spanking feel worse after a longer break. But then, I've actually never played regularly, so I can't really say whether my pain threshold would be higher if I did. Oh, and it's sweet how everyone is having their ideas about “that other thing”, that's much funnier than it would have been had I just named it right away! ;-)<br /><br />The most important point: I hope that Tom will be feeling better soon!<br /><br /><br />@ Peter:<br /><br />Actually, neither the severe scene with the cane nor the hard flogging were as erotically effective as for example a medium severe spanking with my new riding crop. It's the scenario and the intimacy between Ludwig and me that made these two hard scenes erotic at all. I think the caning made me very proud which was a good feeling, but it wasn't exactly a typical erotic feeling because it really was a kind of experiment. The flogging was more intimate. That's why that scene was more erotic than the caning.Kaelahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17108718924415630397noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-616982860776135414.post-44372931760450096482010-08-05T01:25:57.476+02:002010-08-05T01:25:57.476+02:00So Kaelah, which was - not most painful - but most...So Kaelah, which was - not most painful - but most erotically effective, 50 with the cane or 100 with the flogger ? Two very different implements creating very different reactions, but each with their uses.<br /><br />I shan't join in the "other thing" guessing game (but I've a good idea).<br /><br />PeterPeter8862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-616982860776135414.post-61716275811005925762010-08-04T18:22:56.782+02:002010-08-04T18:22:56.782+02:00Oh, good to know that it worked out well! I'm ...Oh, good to know that it worked out well! I'm feeling similar anxiety about my own threshold/ability to submit atm, because Tom has been so ill lately that we've not played much. It's reassuring to hear that your desires and limits haven't changed! And I'm very glad you had fun :)<br /><br />I have ideas about what "that other thing" might be as well ... Anyway, trying one's best is all a submissive should aim to do, and should be enough for any dom. I'm glad that you and L have your heads around that one :)Pandora Blakehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14379384317906645783noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-616982860776135414.post-3138351682641116162010-07-31T11:12:31.867+02:002010-07-31T11:12:31.867+02:00I'm really glad you enjoyed your weekend and t...I'm really glad you enjoyed your weekend and that your pain tolerance hasn't diminshed as you'd feared. It's been a long while since I played particularly hard, so I'm hoping that whenever I next do, I'll be able to take a leaf out of your book!Elianehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10961611906046329911noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-616982860776135414.post-58117749948018409432010-07-29T19:33:40.896+02:002010-07-29T19:33:40.896+02:00@ Arjuna:
It's good to see you (or rather, to...@ Arjuna:<br /><br />It's good to see you (or rather, to read a comment from you), again. I'm still not sure whether you mean the right thing (actually, it's just one certain variant of something), but your intuition is very good, so I guess you've got it! ;-)<br /><br />I don't think I will ever be perfect concerning “that other thing”, though. But in my opinion (and I think in Ludwig's, too) that's okay. Ludwig and I have a lot of common desires, some of them completely new to both of us, and some common limits. And even for those things one of us is more interested in than the other, we usually find a scenario that works for the one who is less into it, too. So I think it's absolutely okay to have one or two things one of the partners enjoys but doesn't get very often because it's not really the other partner's taste.<br /><br /><br />@ QB:<br /><br />Thank you very much for writing your first comment on our blog! :-) It's always great to get some feedback from readers who haven't commented before.<br /><br />I think you're right, it's difficult to find a kinky partner in the “vanilla” world out there. But maybe you can find some friends in the scene by taking part in the discussions on the various forums and maybe one day meeting other people in a safe environment for example at a spanking party, when you feel ready to take that step. I hope to hear more from you, you're always welcome to share your thoughts by writing a comment or an email!Kaelahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17108718924415630397noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-616982860776135414.post-33157151083798245172010-07-29T00:28:01.275+02:002010-07-29T00:28:01.275+02:00Hi there Kaelah, I've followed your blog entri...Hi there Kaelah, I've followed your blog entries with interest, but but this is the first time I've left a comment!<br /><br />Just wanted to congratulate you on being brave enough to acknowledge your kink and come out. In that respect, I am still in the closet - maybe that's why my relationships never *quite* work! Especially as I come across as the archetypal English rose, very proper with an accent to match...<br /><br />QB<br /><br />BTW, unlike Arjuna, I've no idea what that 'other thing' thing is, but it sounds like you're getting there :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-616982860776135414.post-14458263911067192602010-07-28T18:48:24.678+02:002010-07-28T18:48:24.678+02:00Good to hear you enjoyed your session. And I loved...Good to hear you enjoyed your session. And I loved the way you are making it quite clear what "that other thing" is, without spelling it out. Regarding that activity, the same old rule applies, I guess: practice makes perfect. And then the fun starts.<br /><br />Cheers,<br />ArjunaArjunanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-616982860776135414.post-44667123192882567882010-07-26T19:57:24.538+02:002010-07-26T19:57:24.538+02:00@ Eric and Anonymous:
Thanks a lot for cheering m...@ Eric and Anonymous:<br /><br />Thanks a lot for cheering me up! Ludwig and I had a wonderful weekend with a lot of different fun and play. The main scene lasted for about two hours and contained a riding crop, a wooden hairbrush, a belt and 100 lashes with the mean flogger (severe, but not over the top), ropes, a lot of cuddling and some other sexual things couples do including “that other thing”. The latter was something I didn't manage to do 100 per cent the way I would have loved to, but Ludwig knows how edgy that thing is for me and he very much appreciated that I was willing to try my best for him.<br /><br />I was very scared when the spanking started, but Ludwig knew exactly how to warm me up properly and how to take me to my limit without going one step too far. And the good news: It seems that my pain threshold (or stubbornness) hasn't decreased very much. Ludwig is of the opinion that it hasn't changed at all.<br /><br />In conclusion: It was a wonderful weekend, vanilla- and kink-wise, with a great session I enjoyed very much! And it seemed like Ludwig enjoyed it, too... :-)Kaelahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17108718924415630397noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-616982860776135414.post-54312035124280283902010-07-25T18:43:47.825+02:002010-07-25T18:43:47.825+02:00Cheer up!. Do not be afraid. I'm sure you get ...Cheer up!. Do not be afraid. I'm sure you get support more than 100. I want you to enjoy the session.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-616982860776135414.post-35629329097043441782010-07-23T22:10:06.872+02:002010-07-23T22:10:06.872+02:00Enjoy your session!- EricEnjoy your session!- EricAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com